Responsibilities

Newcastle Mistress Adore

With any submissive I choose to play with I feel it is my responsibility

1 TO LISTEN

My sub has to know they can talk to ME about anything and I shall not judge, ridicule, use in a negative way, or ignore anything they tell Me.

2 TO TEACH

My sub has to trust I shall only teach what I believe through communication they need/want to learn. Limits shall be pushed but constant communication shall be maintained.

3. TO RESPECT

My sub deserves as much respect from Me as he/she gives Me.

4. TO BE TRUSTWORTHY

My sub is giving Me the greatest gift they have, their submission, their loyalty, their trust, often telling me things they have never told another. They have the right to know this trust will not be undervalued or abused.

5. TO BE HONEST

My sub may ask advice, not always play related, either way I will always give honest truthful answers not just what the sub would like to hear. Any sub that comes to see ME and must be able to feel safe in the knowledge anything said or done will go no further.

6. TO ENCOURAGE

My sub will blossom under MY care through encouragement and tutoring. Confidence grows with time and a happier sub emerges.

7. TO CHASTISE

My sub at times shall be chastised when called for in a non play way.

8. TO CARE FOR AND ABOUT

My sub should be able to expect ME to care about them in and out of play time. Their mental/physical well being is very important to Me and I do not play with any sub that does not have the right head space. I also expect to be told of any medical problems or medication being taken for any reason.

9. TO STRETCH MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY

My sub shall never think they will get an easy ride with Me (in session). Boundaries shall be pushed in different ways at different times. Tasks shall be given that could seem easy until some extra thought is put into it.

10. TO BE THERE FOR (in and out of play)

My sub knows I am a shoulder to lean on and a friend in life, sub drop / life problems / exciting events, many things can happen when MY sub will need Me to be there to boast, shout, cry at/to. *** I must have sessioned with you at least 6 times before this privilege is allowed.***

11. TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR

My sub knows I shall still be looking after them even if I allow others to play with them. They are MY responsibility and their safety is MY priority.

12. TO REMAIN DISCREET

My sub shall know even if we stop playing for any reason discretion shall remain and will be expected. Confidentiality forms must be signed by both parties.

13. TO BE CONSISTENT

My sub knows I shall remain consistent and not confusing (unless I’m playing head games). My rules will not change on a whim or are dependent on my mood.