The ups and downs of life

Isn’t it funny how we all look at other people and make our own assumptions about their lives.

How often do we think someone must have the perfect life, when actually just because they do not moan and complain all the time does not mean they do not have ups and downs, we all have them.

Then every now and again things happen that put life in perspective, two of these things have happened to me, one last week and one yesterday, neither are things i have any control over, one may be turn out well, one can not, though the latter has not happened to me personally, a friend of mine’s life will never be the same again.

We all have many things in life to be grateful for, and it is so easy to lose sight of what we actually do have, and just as easy to make problems out of things we do not have, when really we may have a lot more than others.

If you have anything you are working through,need to work through, or are unhappy about, bring into the mix the positives and see if it helps.

Remember one day you may not be able to make the choices you can now, we never know what is around the corner, appreciate what you have and make the most of it while you can.

Stay safe and be happy 😉

The ups and downs of life